LIFE AFTER DEATH: EMBRACING THE QUEER WIDOW


Dan Pillers, "Widow's Weave", 2001.
Felt, Bones, Dried Roses, Ribbon and Copper, 30"x72"

 

 

 

 

 

Dan Pillers

In the past two decades I have been widowed three times over. Mike committed suicide, Galen died an accidental death, both leaving me without an opportunity to say a last good bye. Danno, however, succumbed to AIDS, and in his final year my every breath was breathed in devotion to him. After each death I found myself feeling lost and alone. With no social recognition, legal standing, nor family support, I felt belittled, silenced and outcast.

I find strength within a community of fellow pariah. Like the authors of the “Slave Narratives” and the survivors of the “Holocaust”, I am compelled to tell my story. My stories are told through a combination of imagery, artifact and text. But my voice alone is not enough. Creating Life After Death: Embracing the Queer Widow has added my voice to a chorus of others. We come together with pride and dignity. We collectively stand, as one, the “queer widow”.

 

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